3 things that cause me immense stress. application forms for almost anything Attempting to understand what clothes go with each other Deciding when what people are saying is not genuine it's just something they are saying to be polite. I imagine these are quite surprising to most people but they are part of my life now. In the past my mask knew how to deal with all of these things. The thing is wearing the mask that allowed me to appear normal was just making me worse in the